Psychedelic Medicine Woman · Soul Journey Designer
The power of Re: to re-live, to return, to renew.
You are always, already, alive.
Psychedelic Medicine · Music
SOMA Breathwork · Yin Yoga · ACT
Realived is a space for renewal. Real expansion happens when we are connected to both the cosmos and the earth; when we can feel our numinous essence while staying rooted in the body. It is living from the truth that we are a divine child.
This is not metaphor. It is a lived, felt, embodied reality that carefully crafted soul journeys make accessible. This is the path of becoming more alive. I work in four dimensions. The physical body. The subtle body. The field between. And the moment where they all deliquesce into one truth.
Medicine, real medicine, is subtle. It moves through space, through sound, through silence and through movement. Psychedelic medicines can be the catalyst for a profound soul and heart flight, in the bodies. The soil of our soul.
"I take people on a soul and heart flight, in their bodies."
Tessa van de Ven
I am a psychedelic medicine woman, facilitator, educator, and ACT practitioner. My path has been shaped by 11 years of deep-dimensional work through psychedelic journeys and complementary modalities: breathwork, yoga, sound, prayer, and wisdom teachings.
I've had encounters with lost light and false light, within and without. From that terrain, I know what it means to live truly from the heart and to remember our light. Heart-centered living is not an aspiration. It is the most fulfilling soul-human direction in life.
My work is about dissolving the layers between you and your own aliveness. I guide people through soul journeys that help you reconnect with the truth of who you are beneath protection, conditioning, and inner noise, so you can inhabit yourself fully, as a divine child of this earth and universe. This work supports you in landing in the body, softening the mind, reconnecting with the heart, and opening to subtle medicine, and is devoted to the art of renewal.
Each offering is a doorway. Whether you come for facilitation, education, or integration, the arc is often the same: land in the body, connect to the heart, soften the mind. Release patterns. Return alive.
These are not techniques. They are languages, each one a way of speaking to the internalized patterns of you that words cannot reach.
Music
The main pillar. Sound is the original medicine. Carefully curated, personalized journeys that hold, open, and transform, guiding the mind-body through release, remembrance, and return. Music is the invisible ceremony.
Primary CarrierPsychedelic Medicines
The catalyst. Used with intention, preparation, and reverence, plant, fungal, and synthesized medicines can open the doors of perception, revealing the truth of who you are beneath conditioning and illusion.
The CatalystSOMA Breathwork
Pranayama-based breathwork that activates the autonomic nervous system, engages the subtle body, and creates expanded states of awareness from within. No substance required; the breath alone is the portal.
Inner AlchemyYin Yoga
Long-held, floor-based postures that work at the level of fascia, meridians, and the energetic body. Yin yoga is a practice of compassion and inner listening, teaching the body to soften, open, and trust the ground.
Felt BodyACT & Inner Work
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy at the intersection of psychology and somatics. We work with present-moment awareness, life direction, and committed action, softening avoidance and deepening willingness.
Mind-BodyNatural & Creative Arts
Prayers, plant allies, scent, clearing techniques, and self & community care rituals drawn from wisdom traditions. Ancient technologies of reconnection, adapted for the modern traveler bridging the seen and unseen.
The FieldTogether, these modalities support you in landing safely in the body, softening the mind, opening the heart, releasing old patterns, and integrating insight into embodied living.
REALIVED is a regenerative space for deep inner journeys: a place to connect with your heart, land in your body, unravel protective patterns, and remember the living intelligence within you.
A soul journey is an intentional, creatively designed integrative experience. It is not a single session; it is a passage of renewal from the inside out. You arrive as the self you've learned to inhabit. You come home to the deeper living self.
I design each journey individually and uniquely, drawing on the full spectrum of my pillars, modalities, and teachings, to meet you where you are and align with what you're willing to explore. Every journey includes preparation, the journey itself, integration, and application. The container is carefully facilitated. The space is transformative. The direction is toward life.
You are a divine child
of cosmos and earth
Real expansion lives at the intersection of all four: the physical, subtle, relational, and eco-cosmological. True transformation unfolds through all of them.
The living vessel. Sensations, somatics, breath, and movement. The body holds primal knowing.
Meridians, energetic channels, and liminal space. Yoga, sound, and clearing work move in this field.
Grounded, rooted, elemental. Connecting to the living intelligence of the earth.
Expanded, open, vast. Connecting to the infinite inner dimension of conscious being.
Not all light is the same. Not all love is the same. The journey requires learning to discern, within yourself, and within the inner and outer worlds you inhabit.
I have encountered lost light, the parts of ourselves that went dim and hid. I have encountered false light, the brightness that blinds rather than illuminates. And I have found the real light. The medicine teaches us to recognise these lights within and without, to grieve what has been lost, unmask what is false, and serve what is genuine. Light that is real does not seduce. It simply allows you to see, sense, and feel clearly.
Living from the heart feels good. Not in a sentimental way, but in a structurally different way. When we align our presence, choices, and actions with the intelligence of the heart rather than the fear of the mind, something shifts. Not once, but continuously. This is what soul journeys open: a felt sense of what it means to actually live from your center. Love is the direction. The heart is the compass. The body is the home.
"Medicine is subtle. Real expansion takes place when we are connected to the earth and cosmos, and living from the truth that we are a divine child."
The work of Realived
"Her extensive direct experience with various psychedelic medicines and wisdom traditions, combined with her natural ability to navigate expanded states of consciousness, makes her truly exceptional. Her presence is characterized by sensitivity, attunement to subtle energetics, and an innate ability to hold space for deep healing. She embodies the essential qualities of a psychedelic retreat facilitator: compassion, adaptability, and a grounding presence."
Arnaud Beauregard Initiator · Tangerine Retreat"Tessa has exceptional relational skills, communication abilities, creativity, leadership, professionalism, and emotional self-regulation. She has a particular ability to connect deeply with others, think independently, work well within a team, and navigate complex emotional and interpersonal dynamics with maturity and care."
Myles Katz Executive Director · Confluence Retreats"I noticed in Tessa an innate curiosity about people and situations, and a genuine desire to continuously expand her knowledge and skills. She consistently maintained high ethical standards. I have every confidence that she brings dedication, intelligence, compassion, and enthusiasm into the work she does and the spaces she facilitates."
W. Hunt Priest Jr Executive Director · Ligare"Tessa has a true gift for working with complexity within the space of the deep psyche and within ceremony. She has an admirable capacity for holding space for the hidden parts of ourselves and navigating those spaces with care and intuition. It has been an honor and a privilege to be in ceremony with Tessa, and this serves as both a heartfelt testimonial and recommendation of her and her work."
Natasja Pelgrom Wellness Retreat Director · Synthesis Institute B.V.
Renewal begins with a return.
Re-turn to your breath.
Re-turn to your body.
Re-turn to your heart.
Return to the real light.
Every journey begins with connection.
Book a Discovery CallA personalized journey designed uniquely for you. Includes preparation sessions, the music ceremony itself (whether medicine-assisted or not) and integration support. Held in person or online for educational components.
Enquire →Sacred group journeys held in carefully chosen locations. Music ceremony, SOMA breathwork, yin yoga, and the full arc of preparation and integration. Community that builds in the shared liminal space of the subtle and the real.
Enquire →For individuals, healthcare practitioners, and organisations. Frameworks for working safely and intentionally with psychedelic medicines. Harm reduction, preparation, integration, and the broader field of consciousness work.
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